Our Purpose
Most friction isn't incompatibility. It's assumptions neither person knew the other was making.
Why it works
The things that feel too soon to bring up are usually exactly the right things to bring up. Couples who name expectations early stay closer, longer. Gottman & Silver, The Seven Principles, 1999
It's rarely incompatibility that creates friction. It's the assumptions each person carries privately — about roles, money, the future — that no one's named yet. Gottman et al., Journal of Marriage and Family, 1998
More than attraction, more than compatibility, being genuinely known by your partner is what makes a relationship hold. Attune is built to get you there. Johnson, Hold Me Tight, 2008
Who it's for
Perfect for couples who are:
Before assumptions have time to quietly take root.
You know each other well. There are still things you've never quite named.
What you each need and envision shifts. Attune is worth revisiting.
Two exercises. About 25 minutes each. Everything you learn is yours to keep.